A Grandmother's Point of View

"My mother wrote this, and I just had to share it with you all "


Down Syndrome is what Nathan has - NOT who he is.
Not like chicken pox or measles, more like being born
with red hair or left handed (to put it simply). Everyone
of our children deserve the best we can give them. From
unconditional love, teaching them manners, morals and
behaviour to the best of our abilities. Every child is
different and learns a different way. They have their own
pace, personalities and interests. Parents dream and hope
for success for their children, but what may be success to
you and I may not be to others. In my lifetime, I have heard
the word "plateau". I don't believe this word should ever be
used about a child. They may be resting or getting their
second wind, however, no matter what age we are we never
stop learning. How many parents, especially with teenagers,
have thought or said, "Will he/she never learn?" Of course,
he/she eventually does. It may have taken rephrasing it 20
different ways, being consistent, patient, and under all that
frustration, loving. But, he/she usually does learn. Some may
think "What about his medical and/or physical problems?"
So far Nathan has heart problems and as he grows he may
have others. We don't know as yet and will cross each bridge
when we get to it. Take a look around and see the young
children in your neighbourhood. How many have asthma,
allergies or diabetes? How many are in abuse or broken homes?
How many are hurt on the inside where no one can see?
Nathan has a very strong support system, not only from CHEO
(which is fantastic) but from family and friends as well. Is it easy?
No, but raising children is one of the most worth while professions
I have ever done - it is all in the heart. As I stated at the beginning,
Down Syndrome is what Nathan has -- NOT who he is!

Love from
Gramma Duck